Don't get me wrong, I agree that trying to force things will only backfire. I have a very very very relax trading style. And I have a day job so I don't have to worry about market gains paying bills.

That being said, my goal in the stockmarket is to make as much money as possible. One can only work a certain amount of hours in a day. To get rich you need a scalable business. And there's no business as scalable as trading the markets.